Hi all, I have a couple of questions which I think some of you may have been through or are going through (not sure if this is the right part of the forum - please move if needed). I am currently waiting to start at the BRNC with the RFA.
Firstly is there any advantage of moving near the sea after you have qualified? I currently live in the Midlands and am happy/settled with my fiancee at the moment, I presume it's possible to just travel from wherever you are based to the ship or wherever you need to be. We can move if we need to but it wouldn't be ideal.
Secondly I was wondering if any of you guys have started a family whilst you've been working? Or are any of you considering it? I don't want to wait too long until we start a family but there seems to be a lot of sacrifices if I carry on working. I don't want to miss the birth, and 4 months away from a potentially new born seems like a lot of growing up to miss, and I don't relish the idea of having my other half cope on her own for 4 months. On the flip side I want this to be my career so it's leaving me between a rock and a hard place.
How do people get around this or cope with it?
All opinions welcome please give your 2 cents.
Firstly is there any advantage of moving near the sea after you have qualified? I currently live in the Midlands and am happy/settled with my fiancee at the moment, I presume it's possible to just travel from wherever you are based to the ship or wherever you need to be. We can move if we need to but it wouldn't be ideal.
Secondly I was wondering if any of you guys have started a family whilst you've been working? Or are any of you considering it? I don't want to wait too long until we start a family but there seems to be a lot of sacrifices if I carry on working. I don't want to miss the birth, and 4 months away from a potentially new born seems like a lot of growing up to miss, and I don't relish the idea of having my other half cope on her own for 4 months. On the flip side I want this to be my career so it's leaving me between a rock and a hard place.
How do people get around this or cope with it?
All opinions welcome please give your 2 cents.
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